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Do you feel like your years in corporate America have beaten you down?

 Are you questioning your skills, your talent and whether you are good enough to even be in the room? Has a boss, coworker or leader at your company bullied you and made you feel small?  

Has this lack of confidence bled into your personal relationships? Do you struggle to set up boundaries with your spouse/partner, children, friends and family?  Do you also feel like you struggle committing to a decision because you aren’t confident enough in your thought process? Do you always seek out validation regarding your decisions? 

Do you wish that you could feel confident in your work and know without validation that you are incredible at your job? Do you want to speak authoritatively in meetings and know without a doubt that you are a highly intelligent woman with incredible ideas? 

Do you want to be able to put out boundaries in relationships so that you aren’t a pushover and aren’t constantly being taken advantage of? 

Do you want to learn how to self-validate your own decision-making and feel confidently that you are doing the right thing? 


I’ll help you get there.  I’m Tamara Toussaint Owens and I’m a Confidence Coach, Working Mom, Account Director and Lawyer.   

I take a holistic approach to coaching that focuses on mindset work and squashing limiting beliefs. 

Through my approach, I help women who have internalized other’s negative viewpoints and they: 

  • Have become paralized at work and doubt all their thoughts, ideas and work output and question everything
  • Are afraid to move out of a toxic situation because they doubt that they are talented enough
  • Don’t set up appropriate boundaries in personal relationships and feel exhausted 
  • Question their own decision-making abilities and always need validation before they make an important decision

I will help you get to the root of your confidence issues and build a solid foundation so that you can have unshakeable confidence in your decisions and be successful in all areas of your life.

How do I know all this? I suffered from all of this.  After I finished law school, I struggled to find the right job fit for me. I went to law school because I didn’t trust my own decisions and instead listened to what my parents thought was best for me. I hated it but I graduated and searched for a job within the legal field because I thought that was what I was supposed to do. Each position that I subsequently had in the legal field was hell. My last position in the legal field was at a law firm where I was bullied, told that I wasn’t “paid to think” and I questioned myself and intelligence everyday. I fell into depression and had severe anxiety, I lost 20lbs and started to see a therapist. I was eventually fired, although not for performance, and I never felt more relief in my life. 

Does this sound familiar?

  • Do you wish you could find the right profession fit that makes you feel empowered?
  • Do you look at others and wonder how they have the confidence to show up boldly in professional spaces? 
  • Do you wonder if you will ever feel confident enough to make a bold decision without a validation committee?

Let’s crush your  limiting beliefs by not internalizing external negative voices and actions and knowing your self worth. 

I eventually found my way into sales and I have crushed it, moved up the corporate ladder quickly and made more money than I would have being a lawyer at a law firm. 

How did I do it? Go from rock bottom, not knowing the direction of my life, getting fired from a job I absolutely hated to being a super successful Account Director in Sales? Well that’s what I’m here to help you figure out. 

How can I help you make these bold moves in your life? 

Sign up for a free session with me to find out!



Phone: + 1 800 755 60 20

Adress: 3 Walt Whitman Road Brooklyn, NY 11219

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